Posted by Jason Fonceca on Nov 2, 2008 in Abundance, Fashion, From The Net, Inspirational, Inspirations, Life Coaching, Music, Personal Growth, Relationships | 2 comments
Another edition of creative beauty boosts has arrived. my last post on creative boosts for women went over really well, and i’ve decided to offer a part 2, focusing on less of the appearance aspects of beauty and more the mental and emotional attitudes that may be worth cultivating.
i have been hunting down and building up links for an awesome article for men as well, which i hope to release shortly. which is not to say that these creative beauty posts are not beneficial to men as well, even while putting them together i learned a lot, was able to put myself in another person’s shoes, and really improved my own understanding of the world.
in the same manner as last time, i’ve left these in random order to hopefully encourage a gradual absorption of what’s here and to increase attention. enjoy!
what it is to be a woman – one of the most beautiful pieces on the internal and external beauty of women i’ve read.
eco-salon – 24 ways to quiet your mind.
10 home birth facts no one is telling you – love those catchy titles
hunter nuttall – how to be a woman – definitely some interesting content.
teen girls may be having oral sex, but the problem is you – the comments section of the above link contains some intriguing responses.
focus on your self. it may sound a little counter-intuitive, but i still recommended being selfish. take steps and learn and grow for yourself. acquire or develop new traits and characteristics and habits in yourself that make *you* feel like a better person. does it feel good to be irresistible and desirable? then do it for yourself, not to get anything (a date, love, etc.,) focus on that. does it feel good to worry less and be more playful? then look to others who are this way and learn from them. by improving oneself, there lies a powerful way to help the world and everyone around you at the same time. it helps both the self and others, and you may be surprised at what phenomenal rewards are in store. what are some ways to be a more beautiful woman? this post may give some ideas: 12 things women do that men find irresistible.
posh organix – avoid putting toxins on your body or into the environment and still get high quality beauty care products.
10 benefits to orgasms – control appetite, tone muscle, sleep better, boost immune system, and more
30 skills every woman should have before she turns 30 – lol, pretty self-explanatory.
bra-fittings – indirectly about the soul, learn about them NOW. please. for yourself, for your body, for all the people who behold you
smart girls at the party – a tv show with good intentions, celebrates young girls changing the world by being themselves. a little mushy for some people, but the trailers’ worth a quick look.
any-body – challenging the limited representation of females in society… i get a weird vibe from this site, but i’m going to link it anyway. take whatever good you can from it.
10 crazy facts about love – “If we take our cue from apes, rosy cheeks are crucial in the dating game, says a new study.” facts? perhaps…
internet dating stories – some great real-life stories on here. categories like: before we even met, bizarre dates, happily ever after, rants, etc.
mon.thly.info – don’t think i can summarize it better than this quote: “Thank God I discovered Mon.thly.Info a website that takes the guesswork out of menstruating by tracking and predicting your period, free of charge. –BUST Magazine
men most romantic at 53 – uh… love sweeping generalizations, but i am sure some women would be interested in this.
kissing.com – the art of kissing. this feels pretty natural to me and they push a dvd for sale; still there is a lot of good material in there: kissing with braces, different types of kiss, how to get boys to kiss you (, if its me… just ask
) kissing is a powerful soulful exchange. can’t hurt to learn about… or try…. mm.
triangle theory of love – supremely interesting take on the different types of love we feel.
this is what its like being a hot girl – a guy conducts a social experiment to see what its like to be a hot chick online. can really help one put themselves in anothers shoes.
ABC of yoga – a friendly introduction to a beneficial chakra-balancing practice many are interested in.
what the motherhood mafia never told you – the mystery of birth is often shrouded in superstition – pregnancy myths such as “eating for two” are debunked here.
defining your style – tips like: find a mentor, pick someone to guide you to new levels of style
love your body – every day!
things to keep – keep your thoughts positive, because they become your words…
our intentions is where most of our changes take place. if a person truly intends something there is a subtle shift in energy, it might not even be apparent or noticeable, even to the person who chose to intend something. a man is walking north towards a mountain, as he walks he realizes the mountain lies slightly west and that if he keeps walking in a line straight north he is actually getting further and further and will miss it by miles. so he decides to make the tiniest change in his direction, a barely noticeable footfall. and now he is heading more northwest, and almost directly towards the mountain. he just saved himself from missing his mark and tremendous amounts of work/backtracking. this is what our intentions are like. intentions will get your thoughts on the right track. your thoughts will repeat and serve their purpose and guide your actions, actions become habits and suddenly you’re living in the way you intended. it may take a little time or a lot, but that minute change in life’s direction is key.
intend to be miserable and difficult. intend to find some drama or be a victim… or intend to be a healthy weight. intend to be a vibrant personality, its so simple, it doesn’t even require action… the action follows the thought which follows the intention. there may be some hard times involved on the path, some hills and valleys, but at least we are intending directly towards our destination. what should we intend? intend whatever you feel will make you happiest, but here’s a personal favourite: joy is sexy.
12 powerful life lessons – follow your dreams, don’t fear the unknown. simple stuff but a great reminder and explained in nice language.
what makes a woman sexy – how to beautiful, attractive, desirable and unforgettable.
a couple bonus links:
live on less and love it – perhaps an eye-opener of what can be done when we stop seeking wealth and appreciating what we have.
the girl who silenced the world – this could be looked at as a dramatic take on the environment and feels a little harsh on the cycle of life perhaps, but i feel it will appeal to readers of my site. i’d love to hear some thoughts on this one. “even when we have more than enough, we will not share with the needy. we are afraid to share. afraid to let go of some of our wealth.”
that wraps up this post. its not strictly, 100% about beautifying the ‘soul’, except in that everything is about beautifying the soul, but it stays away from most of the physical aspects of beauty. if you’re interested in beautifying the body more, check out pt. 1. take some time to share some thoughts if you feel like it…